Our New Address

 Well, this project started out being just temporary, but it seems now it's going to be permanent. So, I gave this page it's own domain. We are now transwomenarentwomen.net and so we don't have to type in all the blogspot stuff.

Well last night I had a very interesting chat with my sis. She's visiting Bozeman today, and she had something very interesting to tell me. Andy got kicked out of that complex in Bozeman. LOL! I say it couldn't have happened to a better person. A more deserving person. My sis told me he had gotten into a fist-fight with one of the other tenants and the manager there kicked him completely out. I said GOOD! I hope he is homeless and miserable. It'd serve him right! Or better still, I hope he's in prison where he truly belongs. He had to go to court because he slapped a woman last year. I hope I never see him again! Of course, once I left Bozeman, I was saying thank GOD I never have to see him again. I hate that guy. I always did. And now because he's been acting like a pig, he cannot get another apartment anywhere. That kind of thing, fighting with other tenants, goes on his record. No apartment buildings are going to allow him in. Another thing, now that he has a criminal record, I think his social security can be taken away from him too. Boy! He really fucked up his life! But I don't feel sad for him. He deserves it more than anybody. Wherever he is, I hope he's miserable.

That'll teach him next time to keep his grubby, stinking hands to himself! I warned him of that! But he always has to touch! He can't not touch anyone. I don't like being touched by strangers. Andy is a stranger to me. I only know his name, that's it. That's not enough. And what little else I did know about him, I did not like at all. So I didn't trust him at all. And I warned him against touching me. He never hit me, but I hated just being touched by him. That was enough. In fact, I've never seen him hit anyone. Except when Karen B told me he slapped her with a newspaper. I didn't see him do that though. But I wouldn't put it past him! He must have gone completely crazy these past few years. I don't know if Karen is still at that complex, and frankly I don't give a shit. I don't think my sis does either. My sis said the last time she went there with Mya, Karen insisted on petting her. I told my sis next time to tell Karen to keep her hands off my baby! Mya is MY baby! And I am very particular who touches her. Karen is a shallow person. I don't want someone like that around my girl. Karen never has seen Ele, and she never will either. Not as long as I'm here to stop her. She can't even peek at my Facebook profile anymore. I found out I can block her back, even since she blocked me. So that's the way she'll stay. For all time to come.

Go figure, I used to think she was a good person. hm. I think I was just vulnerable because I had just moved there from a place I loved to a place I hated.

Another thing my sis told me about is her friend and former client Sandy moved away, and Arlena is not there anymore either. I kinda wonder if Sandy moved in with Arlena back to California. How did she manage that? My sis couldn't even get Sandy to agree to move to Spokane with her. And Spokane is closer to Bozeman than California is. Well, one thing is good about Sandy and Arlena not being there anymore, my sis does not have to feel so bad about moving to Bend, OR. She can now still go to visit her friend once in a while. Well, she wishes Sandy and Arlena all the best. I think the main reason Sandy didn't want to move in with my sis is because she'd have to love dogs. And she couldn't.

I remember my sis wanted to move back to Bozeman in this little mobile home park by a river. Even I thought it was pretty there. But let's face it, I love the ocean. I want to stay on the coast. I want to stay on the coast, but I also need my sis now. I need a caregiver and she's the only person I trust. Especially when I have to take a shower. Like I said, I don't like strangers touching me. Even if it's helpful for me. The only person I'd ever trust to help me when I take a shower is my sis. It takes me years to be able to trust anyone that much. And then there's the thing about me being an introvert. I don't want a stranger in my house when I am in one of my introverted moods. I don't mind family. But when it comes to outsiders, I have days that I just don't want to see them, or even speak to them. I try not to be unfriendly, but some days I just want to be left alone. And sometimes those days can last for weeks! Even months.

There was a complex I wanted to move to here and before I learned more about it, I wanted to move there more than anything! But the one deal-breaker for me was it's an enclosed complex, like the one I lived in in Bozeman. And I didn't like that. I was always running into other tenants every time I left my apartment. When I don't care to see anyone else, that's not a good thing for me. I like it better here, where I can just open my front door and go out when I need to. I don't have to run into close quarters with other people. I like that. I prefer that.