I've been studying people for some time now, since I was in grade school. And even after all these years, I still have yet to figure people out. I know everyone has their own individual personalities. Some people completely lack a personality. But all of us have basic, primeval personality traits. Some we grow out of as we mature. I will admit, I am not a very mature person. For the most part anyways. I still have a bit of loving for childish fun. It's actually what keeps me going. I enjoy that part of myself, and I really don't want to lose it. Not even now that I am in my 50s. But when it's time to act my age and get serious, it's hard for me, but I know I have to do it. Well, I wanted to discuss a bit of what I learned over the years about human nature. One special case in point in particular. Remember yesterday when I mentioned in my post about James Kay? He's a really good example of raw human nature.
He happened to read that post and confronted me about it. I really did want to give him a "thank you for reading". I don't know how he got that post. Probably a wolf in Yosemite Sam's clothing. Or rather a troll. LOL! But anyways, for the past week or so, he's been trying desperately to get my attention. I've already moved on from him. I have no desire to spend the next month going back and forth with someone who doesn't want to listen. So, I've started ignoring him. My sis has already blocked him on Facebook. She says she doesn't know who he is, and doesn't want to know. So, she blocked him. I told her that may be best for her sake. I'm having fun though! Like watching a progressively frustrated monkey in the zoo. James is displaying all the characteristics of someone who is dying for attention, and doing everything he can think of to get my attention back.
It started like this. We were discussing the Canadian-American oil pipeline, which I just know Biden shut down his first few days in office. He says Biden didn't. I still beg to differ. It's one of the first things Biden did when he took over the country. Instead, Biden wanted to get oil from Russia and Saudi Arabia. Then the war happened in Russia and the Ukraine. And then, I don't remember if it was during the summer of 2022 or 2023, Biden went to Saudi Arabia and begged them to let America have some of it's oil reserves. I remember that, because I remember saying that Biden shouldn't have shut down our own pipeline. Saudi Arabia refused to give Biden any oil from their country. I told that to James, and he still says I am wrong. So, I've moved on. I'm not going through that with him again.
Well, now for the bit of a visual aid in how human psychology works. LOL! At first, James was nicer (I guess, as nice as one can expect from a leftist). Well, he has been asking me to explain the difference between the Keystone and Keystone XL pipeline and I did. I'll start at this comment, because this is where I had begun to have enough of him...
I had already explained this. He just rejected my answer. So, I said this...
And this was his response...
It was at this point I finally just said "kiss my foot" and I don't have to explain anything to him if he's gonna cop an attitude with me. And so I started to ignore him. But before I did, I couldn't go without saying one last, farewell post to him...
This is the same man who called FOX News "Faux news". Whatever that means! Well, I know faux means fake. But it's not pronounced like fox. It just looks like it would be. Well anyway, now we see the psychology come out. This was James' answer to me...
Keep in mind, I had already had enough of his childish insults and back-talk so I'd already walked away from him. Here he is in the first stage of throwing a tantrum. A few days later, I got this in my notice...
He's still trying to lure me in, but he's still in the kindness stage. But wait! It'll get worse. It ALWAYS does! LOL! I didn't respond to him. He waited and waited and waited, and a few days after that, I got this notice...
I'm still here. But I've just moved on. He can shout jabs and obscenities to himself for all I care. Now, he's in the stage where he's practically begging me to come back. Practically, but not really.
Today, I got these in my notifications...
Here, you can see he is starting to lose it. He's more frustrated than he's been all week. So, he reaches the rage-stage...
Well, at least that does explain a lot. He read my last post, which was partly about him. In the beginning. He too is on the autism spectrum. So is his brother, and his deceased father. Yes, I said his father didn't love him. He obviously didn't love him enough to teach him how to act like a real man instead of a big baby. Nor how to treat women with respect. Especially older women. Even now, in my 50s, I feel if I was to talk to an older person the way James does to me, I still feel like my ma would slap me! LOL! Ah! Parents don't do that anymore. And this is the result of that. We really do need to go back to the days of corporal punishment!
Anyway, James goes on. Now he is deep in the rage-stage...
This is the stage where they go completely BONKERS! LOL!! They do this because they still want to get a rise out of you. They think that trash-talking is the way to do it. CNN and MSNBC won't tell him that Trump is like the mitigator. That's how he can come to a peace deal between them. Notice how Zelensky begged Trump for more money and weapons? Trump refused to give him any because he wants the war to end. He wants the Ukraine to go back to supplying us with some minerals from their country. All that CNN and MSNBC will tell you about that meeting is that "Trump disrespected Zelensky". That's all leftists will ever hear about that meeting. And they'll repeat it over and over again.
Then James goes on...
He's still in the rage-stage, but he's calmer now. Instead of yelling, he just simply uses insults. Again, it's to try to get me to respond. But again, I am through with him on Facebook! I go there to visit my friends and family, and other groups I am in. Not to argue with him.
So, that's the 3 stages of throwing a temper tantrum all in one meeting. I'll go on just not responding to him. That's cool. Hopefully he will take the 4th step and just leave. But knowing his type the way I do, he won't leave quietly. More likely he'll rage-quit. LOL! I look forward to that! I'll keep you all posted.
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